God-Given, Weird, Unexplainable–Joy!


For the last decade, I’ve prayed for God to give me a word to meditate and think on throughout the year. In 2010, the word was “peace,” and God used the word to convict and heal me of a tendency to worry.

In January 2011, I felt impressed to begin concentrating on the word “joy.” And like a pig-tailed toddler with a sweet tooth, I had pictures of God giving me presents. Maybe He would overwhelm me with material blessings (I entered the HGTV Dream Home giveaway several times, just in case). Perhaps He was going to provide a huge advance check for a writing project…or send me on a national television show to gain much-needed exposure for my blog.

As you can see, my thoughts leaned toward the selfish, temporary, and trivial. I’m so glad He knows what we REALLY need.

I won’t bore you with all the circumstances that hit our family in 2011. Suffice it to say, we were shaken and stretched in ways we never imagined. But in the midst of stressful moments–such as when my father underwent emergency triple bypass surgery–I felt peace, instead of fear. Not that I didn’t have moments of panic, mind you. But when worry showed up like a scorned lover, I took a deep breath and told him: “Get lost. I’ve got a new beau, and He’s not going anywhere.”

Mostly, it worked. 🙂

Just like the arteries near my dad’s ticker were bypassed by a skillful surgeon, my heart had been strengthened the previous year by God’s gentle scalpel of truth. I’m so thankful He tirelessly fought the stronghold of anxiety that had crept into my life.

Want to know something else? During 2011 and into 2012, God DID give me a present, wrapped in a great big, blood-red bow: weird, unexplainable  joy.

It is a spiritual gift, after all–just not one we talk about very much. My friend Megan says, “Joy’s not sexy, like wealth or prosperity. But it’s longer-lasting.”

I like that.

Joy means counting our blessings, both tiny and immense, while the world moans and heaves and believes all is lost.

Joy overcomes me when my eight-year-old cuddles with me and shows me his cursive practice. Joy warms my heart when my hubby texts me–because he misses me. And joy bubbles up when my teenager says, “I love you Mom!” out of the blue (it doesn’t happen often, believe me).

JOY is simply this: Jesus, at work in us, to do what we can’t do on our own.

There are many verses about joy, but one of my favorites is Psalm 28:7–“The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in him, and he helps me. My heart leaps for joy, and with my song I praise him.” 

My heart has leaped as I’ve spent time with Him. And as I’ve learned to take joy in His presence, He has given me a few answers to the desires of my heart, as well. Those “hugs” from my Father have satisfied my desire to know He’s listening, while whetting my appetite for more of Him–not just His blessings.

As Neh. 8:10 says, “The joy of the Lord is my strength.”

It has been, and it will continue to be. I am praying the same for you.

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About Dena Dyer

I'm a wife, mom, speaker, author of eight books, and contributor to many more. I love encouraging hurting, harried women to find hope and healing in the arms of Jesus...and take themselves less seriously. My latest book is "Love at First Fight: 52 Story-Based Meditations for Married Couples" (co-written with my husband, Carey) from Barbour Books. A few of my favorite things: date nights with my hilarious hubby, spending time with my two sons, and hanging out with girlfriends. I'm grateful for a loving heavenly Father, the blessings He so generously bestows, and His amazing grace. You can find out more about my writing/speaking/mentoring at http://www.denadyer.com.

17 thoughts on “God-Given, Weird, Unexplainable–Joy!

  1. Dena—I have been discovering joy as well this year. And just as I write that I want to list all the good things God has brought into my life—-and then I remember: that HE is the source of joy, not the things he brings. Rejoicing with you today for the joy you’ve found in Him! For these good words that encourage us all to find our hope and joy in His presence, above all. .,

    • Thank you , Leslie…and amen to the fact that HE is the source. 🙂 Blessings to you today!

  2. Dena, I love your definition of Joy – Jesus, at work in us, to do what we can’t do on our own. I always find it amazing what God will bring us to and through while giving us joy and peace during those times. Thank you for sharing that with us. I’ve been hearing a little about Word for a Year, and I find it interesting. Much more so than the New Year Resolutions that I never, ever keep… 😉 I think I’m going to incorporate it as well!

    • Amanda, thanks so much for commenting. I do think it’s more do-able and less about “me” to do a word for the year…it gets me focused on God and what He wants to do in/through me, instead of what I can accomplish on my own.

  3. Psalm 28:7–”The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in him, and he helps me. My heart leaps for joy, and with my song I praise him.”

    This scripture sums it up. When we trust in Him, we can have joy, because we know even the toughest things are working together for our good, and the God who loves us immeasurably is in control.

    Great post and just what I needed to hear this afternoon.

    • I love that verse! Thanks for reminding me of it. I’m glad the post encouraged you. Come back soon!

  4. Dena, your post warmed me to remember how joy is a choice. We might not be able to choose wealth or properity, but we can always choose joy and thankfulness. “Godliness with contentment is great gain.” Thanks!

    • Cheryl, indeed–a choice. And one that we have every moment of every day. 🙂 Have a joy-filled day, today and the rest of 2012…and into 2013.

  5. This is the 3rd blog I’ve read today that deals with joy. From Ann Voskamp I got a new exclamation “Oh Holy Joy! from my friend’s blog and yours a new perspective. Thanks

    • I’m thankful that you found encouragement here. And I appreciate you letting me know. We writers work in a vacuum at times, so comments like yours give ME joy! )

    • Jarm, I am honored to do just that. And yes, I’ve begun to see my trials as teachers, more than just threats to my plans. He is good to teach me that, even if I am slow in learning. 🙂

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